If Not Weight Loss, Then What?

If you read my last past, you know that weight gain during many phases of life is 100% normal for women. For example:

  • Girls gain on average 21-26 kg between the ages of 10-16 (CDC Data)

  • During pregnancy, the recommended/anticipated amount of weight gain varies, but is generally in the 9-15 kg range.

  • During the menopause transition, women will likely gain anywhere from 5-15 kg.

These aren’t failures of control, errors of genetics, or other massive rips in the space/time continuum. It’s biology. Plain and simple.

Yet we fight it (or are taught to fight it) every single step of the way. And it’s exhausting! (And, a bit like pushing the boulder up the hill: pretty endless and defeating).

What if we used all this energy, anxiety, worry, focus, dare I say OBSESSION, with shrinking, controlling, trying to avoid the inevitable that is biology and just, I don’t know, STOP?!

Heresy, right? Unheard of. Because if you’re not trying to change your body, what is the alternative? Do you even care? Have you “given up” or “let yourself go”? Are you going to immediately die of diabetes? HELL NO! But this is what society wants women to think.

So let’s consider what other things we could do with all this energy, time, money. Here are a few ideas. I’d love to hear what YOU decide to do next.

  • Move it! Take up weightlifting, masters swimming, hiphop dancing, open-water kayaking, surfing, or just hiking in the forest. Enjoying BEING in your body versus objectifying and shaming it.

  • Learn to cook foods you REALLY enjoy! Take a cooking class. Travel to another country and take a local food tour. Learn how to make pain au chocolat, baguettes or eclairs. Have FUN with food!

  • Do something creative! Learn to paint, draw, crochet, knit, macramé, sew, throw pottery, play a musical instrument or take voice lessons. Use your body and brain together in a way that lights you up!

  • Connect with others. Dieting, restricting food and constantly worrying about what we eat isolates us, makes our lives smaller. Go have coffee (and a pastry!) with a friend. Meet your partner for lunch on a work day. Throw a pizza party with your friends. Make a sundae bar for your kids. Enjoy the heck out of Taco Tuesday. Make plans and see people. I promise, you wont regret this (even us introverts need this!).

  • Travel, Explore, Learn. There is so much out there we miss when we’re so inwardly focused, self-monitoring and shaming ourselves. It can be easy to lose perspective and miss the wonder, beauty and energy the world has to offer. Getting out of your day to day and testing your own limits, going beyond your comfort zone - these will all give you more satisfaction and joy in the long-run than any diet can.

So what will you do with this one big beautiful life?

More About Menopause and Weight Gain (Let's normalize this shit!)

Let’s just get it all out there:

The majority of women (50-70%) will gain weight during perimenopause and menopause. Some research indicates that on average women gain approximately 1.5kg per year during the perimenopause transition, leading to an average weight gain of 10kg by the time menopause (12 months after the last menstrual period) is reached.*

There are many reasons that women tend to gain weight during this time of life, including:

  • hormonal shifts

  • metabolic changes

  • eductions in muscle mass 

  • changes in activity levels

  • stress and life changes (cortisol!)

Some of these changes we can "manage" and strategize around. But some are going to be (far) less in our control. Let’s normalize staying strong and healthy during this time, instead of just trying to stay thin or lose weight. Especially because thin does NOT equal healthy. 

More specifically, here are some reasons why weight loss and a drive toward thinness may NOT be healthy at this time of life:

  • Decreased bone mass —> increased risk for osteopenia/osteoporosis, falls, fractures

  • Excessive muscle loss —> increased risk of insulin resistance & type 2 diabetes, falls, lack of mobility

  • **Fat (in moderate amounts) is often considered cardio-protective. (Peri-)Menopausal women are at much higher risk of heart disease due to the loss of estrogen. Fat cells, especially those around the midsection, produce a (tiny) bit of estrogen, which can be protective.

  • Increased risk of developing an eating disorder. (These can occur at any time, in any gender, but are increasingly common in women in their 40s and 50s).

  • Diet cycling (frequently losing and regaining weight/constant dieting) itself can lead to increased inflammation; increased risk of insulin resistance, osteoporosis and muscle loss; decreased metabolic rate; and long-term weight gain. (In fact, the single biggest predictor of future weight gain is dieting!).

This doesn’t mean we need to just stop caring about our health or otherwise throw in the towel. It just means that weight loss isn’t necessarily the key to health, and may in fact be problematic.

My recommendations:

  • Focus on habits versus the number on the scale. Aim for your 5 servings of fruit and veg daily, get 2 liters of fluid and 7 hours of sleep each day/evening, eat plenty of protein (1.2-1.5 g/kg body weight) and whole grains, move your body regularly (at least 30 minutes a day), add in some weekly strength training and high intensity interval or sprint training. For extra credit: add in plyometrics and jumping for bone health!

  • Talk with your doctor and your dietitian for a customize healthcare and nutrition plan that fits your unique needs (one size definitely doesn’t fit all!).

  • While body “love” at this age of life can be a struggle, aim for acceptance. We cannot turn back the clock nor should we want to. Try to find ways to feel good versus just focusing on outward appearances. This is your time to shine!

Good stuff to read:

*The British Menopause Society

* Adverse Changes in Body Composition During the Menopausal Transition and Relation to Cardiovascular Risk: A Contemporary Review

**Feisty Menopause, “The Health Benefits of Healthy Body Fat”

Nutrition During a Pandemic: There's no right or wrong way

There’s a meme going around social media right now about “the quarantine 15,” and how everyone is gaining weight because we’re all confined at home due to the COVID-19 pandemic. On the surface, this seems kind of funny, and is analogous to the “freshman 15” that is often discussed when someone goes to university and lives away from home for the first time, gaining 15 pounds their freshmen year due to lots of parties, beer and pizza. But in reality, it’s all pretty shame-inducing. The implication is that we should feel bad about ourselves if our habits have changed or our body has changed. Which is something we don’t need any more of when it comes to nutrition and health.

I say this often, but it bears repeating: No one successfully changes their habits for the long-term based on shame and self-loathing. Long-term change comes from self-compassion, self-acceptance and a healthy dose of motivation and ability. But I digress….

During a situation like our world is facing currently, nothing in our life is “normal.” Our eating habits, work hours, sleeping patterns, exercise options and ability to get to the store to get food have ALL CHANGED DRAMATICALLY. And then there’s the stress of what we are facing in the world right now: A massive pandemic that has affected millions of lives and killed several hundred thousand people in just a few months.

We are not robots. We feel. We grieve. We fear for our jobs, our kids, our families, our own lives. So yes, things will change, and sometimes we will not stick to our healthy eating habits because we are stressed, we are tired, we can’t get fresh food. We may not exercise, because we can’t go outside, to the gym and we live in a tiny apartment with many others. Or we may just be so exhausted we can’t even contemplate it. Regardless of the situation, it is OK. It is OK not to be perfect right now. It is OK to eat less than healthy foods. It is OK if your body changes. You are human.

So please, scroll past those memes. You don’t need that in your life right now. Take care of yourself in whatever way you can. Take care of your family, check in on others and take some deep breaths. We will all get through this. And once we do, we can start to re-emerge and find our healthy equilibrium once again.

The Best Diet in the World

Now that I have your attention, let's talk diet!

But first, let's talk about what "diet" means. To many people, diet means a way to lose weight. In reality, "diet" simply means the kind of food a person habitually eats.  The latter is the definition I wish we'd all focus more on, and then we might not have to focus on the former. In fact, the focus on losing weight is actually making a lot of people even heavier (See below for a few links to studies on this). The ongoing cycle of weight loss and regain can also leave individuals prone to increased risk of high blood pressure, elevated cholesterol, metabolic syndrome or gallbladder disease. But of course, being overweight or obese also increases the risk for many of these same issues. So what's a health-conscious person to do?

1. Focus on overall health (see my previous post titled What is Good Health). A narrow focus on weight or BMI can be counter-productive to our overall health. Look at the bigger picture and take into account your habitual diet, exercise, sleep, stress, cardiovascular health, recent lab values, etc. If you're taking good care of all the aspects of your health and getting regular medical check-ups, your weight isn't as important. Really.

2. Find a way of eating that meets your goals AND your lifestyle. An overly restrictive diet plan that requires tons of meal prep, the purchase of hard to find or prepare foods, or isolates you from your friends and family is not one that you're likely to sustain for a lifetime. Think about what you can imagine eating for YEARS AND DECADES, not days or months. Also, consider your goals. Are you training for a marathon or just trying to find more energy to chase your kids around all day? Do you want to lose weight or are you trying to develop better blood sugar control? Each of these will require a different way of eating.

3. What way of eating actually makes you feel good? Everyone is different. Some people are "grazers" and prefer to eat 5-6 small meals per day, while others find that something like intermittent fasting works well for them (e.g. 16 hours of no food, an 8 hour eating "window" daily). Some people function really well on a very low carbohydrate diet, while others can't make it through the day without a regular influx of carbs. The point is, there is NO ONE SINGLE WAY OF EATING THAT WORKS FOR EVERYONE. (Did I sound like I was shouting? Yes, kind of). This is incredibly important. There is so much hype and so much crazy "diet evangelism" (e.g. the "I lost some weight, I published a book and my diet is the best.") in this world. It can get confusing and hard to decipher all the conflicting information. But you don't need to worry about everyone else. Pay attention to how *you* feel. YOU DO YOU!

4. What does your doctor or healthcare team recommend for you and your specific body, health status, age and lifestyle? Notice I said *your* doctor. Not your mom, your aunt, your co-worker, your friend's cousin's daughter's best friend, Dr. Oz...  If you have diabetes or insulin resistance, you should follow a specific plan that makes sense, is based in science and will meet your needs. Or, if you have GI issues or food allergies, work with your dietitian on identifying trigger issues and develop a plan to avoid those. Heart disease? Look towards a lower fat plan and talk with your team about what works best in this case. Don't go it alone and don't self-diagnose. Your health is yours alone, and it's precious.

So what is the best diet in the world? The one that works for YOU.

-DR

p.s. If you want a list of good dietary plans that are well-balanced and sustainable, check out this review from US News and World Reports, http://health.usnews.com/best-diet/best-diets-overall.

References:

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/21677272

http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/obr.12255/full

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4241770/

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Eat what you enjoy.

And enjoy what you eat.

What is Good Health?

The phrase "good health" or "healthy" are thrown around a lot in modern media and every day conversation. But what does this really mean? For (perhaps too) many, it's about being the "correct" weight or constantly striving to lose weight. For other people, "healthy" might mean lack of illness, which certainly sounds like a good thing. Or, healthy can mean that someone eats a very careful diet and buys only organic or non-GMO foods and never touches refined sugar. This sounds pretty good too. But is it a sign of good health? Not necessarily.

Let's unpack some of these concepts. Can health be boiled down to a single indicator like weight or BMI (body mass index)? Often, popular media and even medical professionals will focus on these metrics and then make recommendations based on the "need" to increase or decrease weight. Is this the right choice? Well, maybe. But not in isolation. Someone with a higher than normal BMI might also be very athletic and carrying a lot of muscle, so their weight and BMI aren't indicative of excessive fat mass or some of the health risks that go along with that. Someone with a very low weight or BMI may be suffering from a serious disease or malnutrition. One single number just doesn't tell us enough.

What about the person that eats "clean" (one of my least favorite terms)? Are they in great health? Maybe, and maybe not. Do we know what their blood sugar levels are? Is their cholesterol high? Do they have a family history of heart disease? Do they sit for hours and hours at a time or have very little physical activity?  Eating a diverse and balanced diet IS really important to good health, but food/diet alone also doesn't tell a particularly rich story.

Similarly, the person that exercises daily and takes a multivitamin and drinks 2 gallons of water each day sounds pretty healthy, right? And they might well be. But is their life filled with extreme stress? Are they hitting the fast food drive-through daily and not getting much sleep? That certainly isn't goin to lead to long-term good health.

The bottom line is that good health (and maintaining it) isn't a single number. It's not a diet plan. You can't outrun bad health or an over-stressed lifestyle. A true healthy lifestyle includes a focus on eating well, exercise and activity, stress reduction, regular medical care/assessments and proper sleep. Sometimes we'll have to sacrifice one or the other, because let's face it life gets crazy. But we should always remember that good health isn't defined or created by a single action or metric. It's integrative. It's cumulative. And it's important.